10 Ways to Keep Your Expectations From Making You Crazy This Christmas
Christmas is a wonderful time! Everyone is full of good cheer, the
milk of human kindness and 20 pounds of candy. All gifts are given
with love, are exactly the right size, are exactly the right color, or exactly the right thing for exactly the price you could afford. Right?
Well, if YOUR Christmas seems to fall short every year, here are some
ways to keep your sanity and enjoy the unexpected joys that the season
brings.
1. News Flash! You are not perfect! Nor is your family! Give up the
myth that they should be!
2. Don’t make the season complicated! Simplify! While elaborate
decorations may appeal to your decorating ego, putting them up takes
time and energy that may be best spent elsewhere this Christmas.
3. Everything doesn’t have to be homemade. Pies, cakes and cookies are
perfectly acceptable if they are bought at a bakery. And your children
just might celebrate if you decide not to make that knitted scarf this
year!
4. Relax. Take time out from the hustle and bustle to just sit with a
cup of tea or cocoa and read. Or take a long hot bath. If you take
some time for yourself, you will be better able to cope with the
holiday chaos.
5. Let other people pitch in. You are not the only one who can do
Christmas! Ask someone to do tasks you usually do, such as make the
eggnog or cookies. And then LET THEM DO IT - even if they don’t do it
just the way you want! Don’t constantly look over their shoulder.
6. Don’t make the season an ordeal for your children by expecting
perfect behavior. Children can easily be overloaded with the food,
sights, expectations and social whirlwind of the season. Again,
simplify for their sake - and yours!
7. If you can afford to hire a cleaning service before company comes
for Christmas, do it! Give it to yourself as a Christmas present! You
will enjoy the season more because you won’t be worn out from
scrubbing that tile with a toothbrush!
8. If you can’t afford to pay cash for a gift, wait until next year to
buy it. Save for the gift in the meantime. The short term thrill of
buying the gift will be more than overpowered by the struggle to pay
it off months into the new year.
9. Get out of the house and walk when you begin to feel stress. It
will help you calm down and keep off those extra pounds. And it will
give your family a break from you!
10. Don’t do guilt - to yourself and others. Don’t use your
expectations of the season as a weapon against your friends and
family. Enjoy what comes this season. It may not be what you expected
- it may be better!
And remember - love doesn’t come wrapped in paper, or tied with a bow.
You can’t get it for $19.95 if you call now or for two easy payments
of only… you name the price. But love is but in the corners of a small
child’s smile, the twinkle of a father’s eye or the drape of an arm
across your shoulder. If you are expecting something else, you just
might fail to recognize it! How crazy!
Here is another GREAT article on how to reduce your stress this
Christmas and keep things more simple.
Pamela Cole Harris
Home and Garden Makeover
http://www.homeandgardenmakeover.com
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